Monday, 13 September 2010
Sir Cyril MBE - My Personal tribute
When I decided to get active in politics I joined the Labour Party in March 1997 as I was active in the National Union of Students and it seemed like many others I wanted to be a part of history. When David Blunkett introduced Tuition fees I resigned in disgust as Mr. Blunkett visited Manchester University during the election promising not to introduce tuition fees. It was around this time that I made contact with Cyril again after an absence of many years. I rang him and he was so happy to hear my voice that he invited me to Emma Street to discuss matters and I arrived with Cyril in his front room reading the Daily Mail – not a great impression of a Liberal!
I reminded him of that first memory and my father who had died many years earlier, and after such a long time he went on to tell me about how great my father was and how he enjoyed the parties every year – now for a politician to remember such matters was something that made me realise he was special – of course he would get it wrong sometimes, but his heart was in a good place and he always put Rochdale first. I spent many hours listening to his stories about his life and what life in Rochdale was like during the early 60’s and 70’s when my father arrived, but he always tried to get me to join the Liberal Democrats which I somehow politely declined.
When I moved to London and worked for a period with Simon Hughes MP that I started thinking about liberalism, equality and social justice. The very issues that I spoke to Cyril about – in the end I joined the Party and remember ringing Cyril up and he was so excited and happy that I had joined and he wrote me a nice letter telling me how to move ahead. What amazed me was the time he was still giving to people like me, I lost count the amount of calls he took when I visited him or the letters he wrote – and he had retired from elected office!!
When some years later I returned to Rochdale he pushed me to stand for the Executive and Vice Chair, which I did. It was during this time that there were some major disagreements about certain individuals who were on a mission to destroy their colleagues, I made some naïve mistakes but was strongly of the view that I was making the right decisions – when things got ugly he was there for him, offering some amazing advice and support. His ability to just help you pick yourself up and get on with it was very helpful.
When I finally stood for the first time as a candidate in Bamford, he was so happy and proud. He hand wrote 900 envelopes to voters asking for their support and never stopped believing in me. I remember his advice that night, “lad you need to loose sometimes to come back stronger”
In the eight years I knew him as a friend I never really got to say thank you to him, I visited him a few weeks ago in the nursing home where you knew he was fading away – it was very sad and traumatic for me to see him. Now as we say good bye to him, I know I cant pick that phone up and hear his reassured voice and get that support and help.
So Cyril, my dear friend thank you for the friendship, help, support and company, your memory will live on for years to come.